Hope

Life is a saga. A novel filled with fun anecdotes and intriguing lessons. Tucked within the pages of everyone’s personal story lie glimpses into the human condition, tales of triumph, loss, grief, success, and hints of what motivates, inspires, and gives hope to each individual.

I’ve heard harrowing stories from many of the difficulties they encounter, and am continually amazed at the resilience and tenacity each person shows. Seeing one friend, for example, push through a concussion and a breakup in the same weeks, and maintain the will to still pursue meaningful relationships and an illustrious career gives me hope that when trials come in my own life, I can encounter them with joy and a resilience myself!

What has given you hope recently?

A tribute

My grandfather was a great man.

He performed in “The Music Man”, “Madame Butterfly”, and “Fiddler on the Roof” and sang in over 10,000 funerals and weddings in his time (no joke), all on top of a full-time position as a pharmacist and a focus on quality time with his family.

He was one of the most generous people I’ve ever met and remained unabashedly positive regardless of the circumstances.

I’ve learned a lot from him, and hope to carry his legacy forward by deepening my faith, continuing to connect with others, and genuinely contributing my time and energy to lifting up humanity, just as he did. I love him to the moon and will miss him immensely.

A milestone

I write this in seat 21C of Alaska flight 234-1 from Eugene to San Diego.

You know that nervousness you feel right before you step off the high-dive into the your community pool? Yeah. That’s me right now. Except my high dive is in the form of a teeny tiny round silver diamond encrusted object that I’m about to give to the love of my life. And rather than leaping into the cold shimmering waters tinged with chlorine, I’m bending down and planting one knee in the San Diego sand…

Yep, I’m (hopefully) getting engaged today. And I couldn’t be happier. What can I say? She’s got me, hook, line, and sinker. If not her, then who?

I’ll save you the sappiness, but these milestones are such important parts of our lives. Such a small moment, but such a big leap.

Well, here’ goes. Into the deep end. Wish me luck!

(Post update, she said yes. Thank goodness or I would have just swam west).

Deadlines

We all have to deal with deadlines, but that shared anxiety doesn’t make it much easier to deal with as they approach.


In the wee hours of yesterday morning, I popped into a coffee shop called Imagine Coffee. Imagine that!
After buying my typical iced Americano, several hours were spent pouring over textbooks and online lectures in a rather uncomfortable wooden chair. But why subject myself to this caffeinated restlessness? Because Oregon State University’s College of Engineering puts forth the gauntlet of qualifying exams for all Ph.D. students after their first year. They want to see if you truly “think” like an academic and test both your written and oral mental fortitude. Mine are in less than a month, and I’m sure many students have echoed this sentiment over the years, but full conceptual understanding feels as distant as an oasis in the middle of the Sahara right now.


Seeing that day inching its way inevitably closer gives me the slightest understanding of what it must have been like for the Spartans of Thermopylae, standing resolute as the Persian exam comes in on foot, chariot, and other more intense machines of war.
I’m being facetious, but it doesn’t mean I don’t wish down to my thickest bones for this test to be over. I do have hope that one day that giant will lie on the barren earth, defeated. As the reader, if you also have looming deadlines, what is your best method of attack in keeping your cool?


At this point, all I can say is take heart. This too shall pass.

Pastimes

I used to downhill longboard all the time. Every once and a while I’ll still dust off the ol’ deck, slip on my slide gloves and find a fun little hill nearby. Here’s some footage from an afternoon bomb today. Enjoy!

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